Tag: apology
Posted on January 14, 2017
by Jan Wilberg
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Eight years ago, after visiting my parents’ graves in Hastings, Michigan, after arranging flowers and sprinkling birdseed to attract the finches my father loved, and after wiping off the moss that had already started to spread on their headstones, I went with my husband… Continue Reading “Reconciliation Redux”
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Posted on July 18, 2016
by Jan Wilberg
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“He thinks you did it on purpose.” “That’s crazy. Like I’d purposely bump him so he spills coffee on his shirt.” Ramon laughed and lit another cigarette. He smoked so much, sometimes there was one going in the ashtray at the same time he… Continue Reading “Pressed”
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Posted on October 10, 2014
by Jan Wilberg
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I just apologized to the complete stranger that I snapped at five minutes ago while we were both standing in line to be seated at the Terrace Cafe at Beau Rivage Casino in Biloxi, Mississippi, where I have no place being because I’m not… Continue Reading “It’s Not Your Fault”
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Posted on July 12, 2014
by Jan Wilberg
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Interpersonal warfare has many dimensions. In the giant storeroom of weapons and strategies, next to the M16’s and poison arrows, is the rebuked apology. This is the scalpel of conflict, the slitting of the aorta, the permanent solution. There is no coming back from… Continue Reading “The Rebuked Apology”
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Posted on January 23, 2014
by Jan Wilberg
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You’re dead to me. No, seriously. You are dead to me. If you are, in fact, alive and breathing, don’t breathe on me. Don’t sit near me. Don’t say hello. Don’t be civil. Just be gone. Not a grudge holder? Then you can’t relate… Continue Reading “What’s the Expiration Date on a Grudge?”
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Posted on December 13, 2013
by Jan Wilberg
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Like many nights, I was having a tough time getting a start on this blog post. I’d started a piece about apology, wishing that a person I know who I think ought to apologize to a lot of people probably never will and wondering… Continue Reading “Sorry a Year Later”
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Posted on December 12, 2013
by Jan Wilberg
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Friends are fleeting but memories long, the many grave trespasses layered like old earth, part of the soil on the paths where people walk, looking for footprints of the thing to be feared.
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Posted on May 11, 2012
by Jan Wilberg
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By now, everyone in the universe is either talking about Mitt Romney or that very weird mom who not only still nurses her 3-year son but is thoughtful enough to give him his own TIME cover as a keepsake. It’ll look great on his college… Continue Reading “What I Wish Mitt Romney Would Say”
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